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For as long as I can remember, certain sexual acts were deemed "freaky white people shit" by the vast majority of my black female friends. From my earliest memories of teenage slut-shaming as a Toronto high school student, it was agreed upon in our young black and brown minds that white girls were the only ones who engaged in oral sex, for example. We would grow up to find that not only was this complete and utter bullshit, but also wonder how that stereotype started in the first place. The more I followed sex-positive black women on social media in my mids, the more curious I became about kink and everything it meant. I started to wonder about my boundaries and limits when it came to sex.
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Thinking Kink: Playing With Race in BDSM | Bitch Media

Jump to navigation. As with the issue of female sexual submission, racial imagery in a BDSM context is an issue apt to cause heated debates, so I want to include two sides of the argument. Today, I'll examine the objections to the use of racialized imagery in kink, and in my next post I'll look at the responses by those who defend it. Tired of being reduced to stereotypes of "sassy" best friends, asexual "mammies" or hypersexual "hoes," black feminists have long defended black women's right to be counted as both sexy and sexual, without being accused of racial disloyalty. But when we add domination, whips, and chains to the mix, things get more complicated. Hardly suprising, given that much of the language surrounding BDSM involves those loaded words "master" and "slave. Recently released novel Wench by Dolen Perkins Valdez depicts the pre-Civil War abuses of black female slaves who were raped, beaten, and sexually enslaved by their masters.
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Shades of Black BDSM

I would imagine someone gripping my hair tightly or a stinging slap on my ass—all very exciting. Let me tell you something. Nothing dries you up quicker than Roots. The growing list of victims—Eric Garner, Sandra Bland, Michael Brown, just to name a few—is a constant reminder that as a black person in America, you are never safe. Which is a hard thing to balance when the very thrill of BDSM plays with our notions of safety.
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In that same sentiment, the world of black kink is both an intimate and a vast one. While the BDSM community is generally welcoming of all identities, there is a sense of comfort in being among your own community within a community. Since I began this journey, I have met and seen so many different things that I never would have been exposed to had I chosen to maintain a mainstream understanding of sexuality and sexual expression. Being a Black kinkster has brought me to so many different places mentally and physically, and for that I am truly grateful because it has made me more confident in what I like, what I want and what I desire.
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