Sex columnist Nadia Bokody says humans don't do well with monotony. A girlfriend and her husband had arranged to drop around for drinks one night, but the husband had shown up solo. But please enjoy the night without me," she added, before hanging up. A couple of weeks ago, I texted a friend and told her I was struggling.
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Monogamy and marriage, for straight people in much of the U. Or they used to. Or maybe not. Featured speaker Mark Kaupp, a licensed marital and family therapist, defined consensual non-monogamy for us — it was, he said, an umbrella term for relationships in which all the partners involved agree that having romantic or sexual relationships with other people is acceptable.
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Photo by Stocksy. I vividly remember the first time I felt it. My husband and I were in the backyard, lazing in the sun, sipping drinks as he told me about what he got up to the night before.
It might not be the obvious relationship strengthener, but watching my partner have sex with his ex-girlfriend on video has actually brought me closer to him. Yep, you read that correctly. I was never directly involved in any of these fantasies. But good lord, was I turned on. It seemed like such a crazy extreme: How could my biggest real-life insecurity also be my biggest fantasy turn-on?