Domination and submissive lifestyle

Dawn-Elise Snipes Feb 18, What does dominant and submissive mean in a relationship? Their fictitious BDSM relationship revolves around power dynamic , power play, and bondage and discipline. Christian Grey is evidently a male dominatrix the dominant partner , whereas Anastasia Steele plays a submissive role.

When I first took my submissive under my wing, she was brand-spanking-new to the lifestyle. I was once where you were standing. Be you Dominant and just starting to learn or a submissive looking for pointers — I want to go through some of my household rules that may be of interest to you. Hopefully you will go on to shape these rules to your own specific relationship. If I am unsure, I will ask. I will not be punished for not understanding.

Cultivating new habits is a big part of life as a Submissive. Whether we do so through a process of training or by jumping in feet-first and taking our baptism-by-fire, we sign ourselves up for a constant process of pruning and refining our habits on the path to our improvement. This is how we build and maintain our practice—by breaking our habits of rebellion and replacing them with habits of service and devotion. Submissive training or any other transition into a routine of submission involves the conscious remodeling of our day-to-day customs through focused determination and energy. Under the guidance of our Dominant, we teach ourselves to stop biting our nails.

I am 18 years of age or older. The relationships can be heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual and can involve two of more parties. Men and women from all walks of life and all social stratas are interested in being submissive in a sub-relationship or Dominant taking the Dominant role in the relationship.